Here is something I wish to say "Just From My Heart"!
Many times over I have pondered about how it would be, if men and women actually spoke the same language.
No matter where in the world, no matter which language is spoken, this is not about the language of nativity but the language of mind-set and heart! It is about the language of giving (Intention) and receiving (Perception).
No matter how we look at it, and since we live within this dimension of polar opposites it becomes clear that when there is a push forward, something else has to give way as it obliges the Law Of Movement! This Ying-Yang Principe of push-and-pull is present constantly and through-out every day of our lives.
The distortion of harmonic interplay happens when Intention is perceived other than it was intended by 'the sender', or when that what is given forth falls onto fruitless grounds because it missed the receiver.
In Football terms this would be called a fumble :)
While listening to people, especially woman, this type of fumbling between the two genders seemingly happens more often than not.
In most cases men then start to blame women of wanting to offend or insult them, simply because men fail to ask about their partner's intention about the coming forward with a particular something, since in a man's mind - rightfully, or not - suspicion is present.
When in most cases woman are simply happy to give and receive gifts also in form of an honest compliment and the pure act of conversation and heartfelt and caring attention many men question this gesture subconsciously as if so the woman wants to make them feel bad, may this be about a statement made, a question asked (showing interest), or even sometimes being given something besides the notorious birthday gift. (What am I supposed to do with that? Is she spending money unnecessarily?)
This also reminds me of the common joke about chewing gum!
She: "Hey honey! Would you like a chewing-gum, too?"
He: " No. Why? Are you trying to tell me that I have bad breath?"
DANG - What a spoiler!
I truly believe that this world needs to engage translators who can teach both, women and men, the Language of Intention from the viewpoint of the opposite sex.
With this being said, I also believe that it is very important for both genders to learn what their partner is actually looking to portray when they speak and approach each other in a conversation.
Eckhart Tolle wrote something very important about this type of communication break-down in his book A NEW EARTH.
He sais that in a relationship there are always four characters involved.
One, is the relationship we have with ourselves and the way we see ourselves.
Two, is about how our partner perceives and chooses to receive us, which is based on and conditioned by his personal life experiences. Three, is about how we perceive our partner based on our life experiences and the archive of emotional memory that which everyone has stored, again through conditioning by society, family and friends as well as the way things feel for us.
Four, is the relationship our partner has with himself and the way he sees his own personality.
Therefore I personally dare to suggest that a perfectly matching relationship can occur if we match-up with someone who will perceive us most likely the way we perceive ourselves and vice versa!!!
If communication break-downs are prominent in relationships this will not allow the flow of giving and receiving for that relating and putting things into perspective is blocked. Since this Universe is responsible for all life to sustain its flow it has to keep things in motion which can only occur by actions of sending and successful receiving.
We are the funnels (think of the 'waist' of an hour glass) for this type of energy under using our Free Will Of Choice of Thought and how exactly we harness this great potential of energy which is immersed in ALL THERE IS! We can choose to filter things out, to magnify, to distort, to harbor, to ignore it, or to even pass it on without judgement! Most of all we can choose to add an ingredient of heartfelt intention!
Fact remains that the only way to live in unison with the Universe is to acknowledge its energetic presence and to be conscious at all times of how we are creating our personal circumstances solely by what and how we think and feel about ourselves and everyone and everything around us.
Making a conscious choice of ones thoughts and intent is key!
That which is self imprinted ego-based truth for one may not be true for the other. It is really important to recognize this!
May your thoughts and intentions be of pure nature, no matter if this is received, acknowledged and accepted by a particular person or not, because the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with You!
Stand Tall, Shine Your Light - Be Peace! ~
Many times over I have pondered about how it would be, if men and women actually spoke the same language.
No matter where in the world, no matter which language is spoken, this is not about the language of nativity but the language of mind-set and heart! It is about the language of giving (Intention) and receiving (Perception).
No matter how we look at it, and since we live within this dimension of polar opposites it becomes clear that when there is a push forward, something else has to give way as it obliges the Law Of Movement! This Ying-Yang Principe of push-and-pull is present constantly and through-out every day of our lives.
The distortion of harmonic interplay happens when Intention is perceived other than it was intended by 'the sender', or when that what is given forth falls onto fruitless grounds because it missed the receiver.
In Football terms this would be called a fumble :)
While listening to people, especially woman, this type of fumbling between the two genders seemingly happens more often than not.
In most cases men then start to blame women of wanting to offend or insult them, simply because men fail to ask about their partner's intention about the coming forward with a particular something, since in a man's mind - rightfully, or not - suspicion is present.
When in most cases woman are simply happy to give and receive gifts also in form of an honest compliment and the pure act of conversation and heartfelt and caring attention many men question this gesture subconsciously as if so the woman wants to make them feel bad, may this be about a statement made, a question asked (showing interest), or even sometimes being given something besides the notorious birthday gift. (What am I supposed to do with that? Is she spending money unnecessarily?)
This also reminds me of the common joke about chewing gum!
She: "Hey honey! Would you like a chewing-gum, too?"
He: " No. Why? Are you trying to tell me that I have bad breath?"
DANG - What a spoiler!
I truly believe that this world needs to engage translators who can teach both, women and men, the Language of Intention from the viewpoint of the opposite sex.
With this being said, I also believe that it is very important for both genders to learn what their partner is actually looking to portray when they speak and approach each other in a conversation.
Eckhart Tolle wrote something very important about this type of communication break-down in his book A NEW EARTH.
He sais that in a relationship there are always four characters involved.
One, is the relationship we have with ourselves and the way we see ourselves.
Two, is about how our partner perceives and chooses to receive us, which is based on and conditioned by his personal life experiences. Three, is about how we perceive our partner based on our life experiences and the archive of emotional memory that which everyone has stored, again through conditioning by society, family and friends as well as the way things feel for us.
Four, is the relationship our partner has with himself and the way he sees his own personality.
Therefore I personally dare to suggest that a perfectly matching relationship can occur if we match-up with someone who will perceive us most likely the way we perceive ourselves and vice versa!!!
If communication break-downs are prominent in relationships this will not allow the flow of giving and receiving for that relating and putting things into perspective is blocked. Since this Universe is responsible for all life to sustain its flow it has to keep things in motion which can only occur by actions of sending and successful receiving.
We are the funnels (think of the 'waist' of an hour glass) for this type of energy under using our Free Will Of Choice of Thought and how exactly we harness this great potential of energy which is immersed in ALL THERE IS! We can choose to filter things out, to magnify, to distort, to harbor, to ignore it, or to even pass it on without judgement! Most of all we can choose to add an ingredient of heartfelt intention!
Fact remains that the only way to live in unison with the Universe is to acknowledge its energetic presence and to be conscious at all times of how we are creating our personal circumstances solely by what and how we think and feel about ourselves and everyone and everything around us.
Making a conscious choice of ones thoughts and intent is key!
That which is self imprinted ego-based truth for one may not be true for the other. It is really important to recognize this!
May your thoughts and intentions be of pure nature, no matter if this is received, acknowledged and accepted by a particular person or not, because the most important relationship you will ever have is the one with You!
Stand Tall, Shine Your Light - Be Peace! ~